The Importance of Body Language in the Job SearchB
By Damian Birkel
A recent article in Business Week entitled, "It’s NOT Your Mouth That
Speaks Volumes," states that stance,
gestures and eye contact are all essential to effective presentation in an
interview.
The
world's best business communicators have strong body language: and a commanding
presence that reflects confidence, competence, and charisma. In addition they
also create an aura of confidence, optimism and power.
Did you know that when you communicate:
o
50% is visual.
o
40% is vocal.
o
10% involves actual words.
Think about that! When you arrive
at an interview or networking event, what verbal/visual cues are you
projecting? Even before you begin to speak, your over-all presentation has
already made strong impression created..
Be sure that your body language
conveys poise optimism and competence.
Let's
say you're all set for your big interview. This is the interview that could change
your career. You know you can wow the person across the desk with your
accomplishments. You are ready to give the presentation that reflects months of
hard work and success.
But, what does your body language say? Does it say
you're confident, well groomed and enthusiastic or just the opposite?
Body
Language to Avoid
One
problem with body language is it may not convey what you really feel. For instance,
if you don’t stand up straight or keep
your hands stiffly by your side it can create
the impression that you're insecure whether you are or not.
Another
problem is failing to make eye contact maybe
you're simply too busy consulting your résumé but that may lead people to think you're being less than
honest with them.
You
may be slouching because you're
tired, but people may read it as a sign
that you're not interested.
Things
to Remember
Effective
body language can help establish an immediate rapport with your audience. and
signals confidence in your over-all message. Here are a few things to remember:
·
Be sure to greet your interviewers warmly.
·
Offer a firm (but not crushing) handshake.
·
Establish eye contact.
·
Smile.
·
Sit forward in your chair.
The
Eyes Have It
People
want to feel special. They want to feel as though you are speaking to them
directly or that they are the most important person in the room during your
conversation. Breaking eye contact is a surefire way to break the connection.
During
presentations split the room into thirds. Address some of your comments to one
side of the room, turn your attention to the middle, and then look to the last
section. Pick out one person in each section and direct your comments toward
that person. The people surrounding that person will think you are making
direct eye contact with them too!
Maintaining
eye contact throughout your presentation requires preparation. The material on
your slide should be committed to memory; otherwise you will be stuck reading
instead of connecting. Make sure you know what's in your résumé or notes so
you're not constantly referring to them.
Don't
let anything come between you and your listeners. Crossing your arms, standing
behind a podium or chair, or talking to someone from behind a computer monitor are
all examples of blocking, which prevents a real connection from taking place.
Think
openness. Remove physical barriers, podiums, computers, chairs. Even a folder on
a desk can break the connection and create distance.
Animate
Yourself
When
you're speaking, let your hands do some of the talking. Great speakers use hand
gestures more than on average. Gestures give the
listener confidence in the speaker.
Try
this: Watch people such as Bill Clinton, Colin Powell, Barack Obama, Tony Blair
or any number of charismatic speakers. You will immediately begin to notice
that they punctuate nearly every sentence with a hand gesture. C-SPAN carries
weekly debates between the British Prime Minister and members of the House of
Commons. Watch it once and you will understand how important and effective hand
gestures really are.
And
move the rest of your body, too. Great speakers move around the room, pointing
to a slide instead of reading from it, placing their hands on someone's
shoulders instead of keeping their distance. Don't animate your slidesundefinedanimate
your body!
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Poor posture is often associated with a lack
of confidence or a lack of engagement or interest. For example, during
a job interview, leaning back in your
chair can give the impression that you're lazy, unmotivated, or dispassionate
about the position. Keep your head up and back straight. Lean forward when
seated. By sitting toward the front of your chair and leaning forward slightly,
you will look far more interested, engaged, and enthusiastic.
It's
All Learnable
I
once worked with a candidate preparing for a major interview. His body language
was a mess, eyes cast downward, hands awkwardly tucked in his pockets, swaying
back and forth. This guy was a poster boy for poor body language. He seemed
insecure and out of his league.
Showing
him the video results of a mock interview created an “a-haa moment.” He
was shocked to see what he looked like; meager eye contact, no hand gestures and
slumping posture. With the job interview days away and after much practice, he
learned to make made solid eye contact, utilizing assertive hand gestures. His
posture and stance exuded power, confidence, and competence he had charisma. Guess
what? He got the job!
Remember,
effective interviewing requires strong body language. Don’t be afraid to
practice your body language in front of a mirror. Practice the words you use, monitor
your body language and watch your job interview success influence rocket!
